Originally Posted by coffee77

looks like nobody is interested in this topic anymore

Originally Posted by jabo

Are you like involved with someone who has hep B? well, if you are basing your relationship because of this, I don't think that you are not handling it very well. Every partner has some kind of stuffs that could be "off" for the other partner but we have to live with it. It could either be a vice, a disease. You would be the one to decide if you will accept it. If i have found out that my partner has Hep B, then, we will talk about it. Consult or find ways to get the best out of life and ways not to get the children get it.

Originally Posted by coffee77

Yea, right. I am involved with the Hep B issue and, unfortunately, I am the one who getting dumped...

Originally Posted by jabo

huh? For what reason? Because of the Hep b that the other partner has? or your the one who has it?

Originally Posted by coffee77

I had a full blood test couple of weeks ago and been diagnosed as HepB possitive.
my partner is a bit upsetly surprised and refused to have any physical commucation with me now...(not even a kiss against the lips). also he has seen a doctor but he still afraid that i might affect his family members...so he intended to acknowledge everyone of his family that I am carrying Hep B virus...
I am very sad, and do not want him to do that... it's kind of private and confidentical issue and I certainly do not want him to spread it...

Originally Posted by jabo

You know how people would say things like "I know how you feel" yet they really don't? well, I would say that I know how you feel, things as private as this should be kept with in the relationship or with some professional about it like a Doctor. Maybe your partner just got nervous about it or something. I do hope you two could talk about it.

Originally Posted by coffee77

Hi mden,

i appreciate your reply.
I think the situation here is that the 'partner' has a chance of being infected(or already infected). 'partner' is a bit upsad because he just want a 'normal' life, instead of coping with sth disordinary. he is also worried about his family because they have dinner together almost every night(there is a chance of speading HepB virus by saliva). the partner has planed to acknowledge everyone in his family that he got infected by HepB(if he has got it). In that case, people would wonder where he got it from... (and the answer is obvious). it will be very awkward and I dont know how to get along with them anymore.
Regarding all above, i think giving up the relationship is probably easier...

Originally Posted by jabo

If he doesn't fight for you or fight this ordeal with you, then that means he don't love you that much. Maybe, if you got out of this thing, and be in the time that you have moved on and found someone else, maybe, you should tell him first hand before things complicated and feelings get more serious...