hello everybody in the forum, i have been introduced to this great forum through one of my friend that i may be able to find a solution to my problem.
This is my story.... On the 25th of Oct last year i came to Australia via Pmv Visa which i got married to my Partner Dec Last year and lodged the partner visa this year january. Now waiting for my Tr to be granted.
Since my arrival to australia my Life has been to misrable due to how i have been treated by my wife. All she want is to keep me at home for sex, Even when shes doing her period she will still forced me to make love to her and if eventually i refused her ... she said that she will ring immi to cancle my visa.
Since my arrival here in australia she never allow me to work, and to go out and alone. shes always monitor my Movement.
I told her last time that i have a life to live and she said to me that i have option either to remain with her and be her sex slave or to go back to my country.
Although i really want to go back to my country but when i think of my family back home i do like to stay in australia and live for them.
Now i have tired of the whole situation , i dont want to continue with this anymore.
I hope someone here can give me any advice to deal with the issue.
i will be glad to ready for the good people of this great forum.
thank to you all.

I think if you stay you will be miserable. She wont change and will most likely get worse. you have to put your happiness first. she sounds unhappy and lonely, so ask yourself if living in Australia is worth it? Wouldn't you rather meet someone who you truly love? That is why we are here, to hold onto our genuine relationships. it seems that yours isn't genuine, maybe by law but not of the heart.

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Sad to hear your story easylife. I am just curious, was your relationship like that when you guys first met or she just changed when you arrived in Aussie? How about your mutual friends and her family? Does anyone have an idea what is going on? As Mossyrocks says, we are all here because of our genuine relatinoships,sadly for you, your partner is not fulfilling her end of the bargain. Think of yourself right now and your happiness. We can ofcourse give you advice but we cannot truly say that we are in your shoes. The only one who can decide is you.

Hope things work out for the best for you.

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Gerrywins
Kenyan Applicant
Australian Sponsor

It appears that you have an issue with your partner, not Australia per se. It is always difficult when you move to a new country, but once you get to know Australia it is even more difficult to find a better place to live in.

Have you talked about your concerns with your partner? Does she know that you are unhappy?