Hi Frank -
Thanks for the note, but I don't have nearly enough information to properly assess your case. I don't do assessments on public forums generally because it takes too much time and involves too many personal details. Would be happy to do a consultation with you if you'd like to get a complete assessment of you and your wife's case to try and determine if there are any issues, potential problems, etc so these can be dealt with in advance. See my website in my signature, then click on Professional Consultation - would look forward to assisting you.