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Old 04-14-2013, 05:31 AM
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How far would you go if your visa wasnt granted

Ok so this Sunday am im on a role asking and starting new threads, so here goes, have you ever thought what you and your partner would do if your visa's were not granted, ok it seems a little daunting I know but seriously, how far does love take us, would you move to your partners country and start a new life there? Were would love take you and how far would you go, can a relationship survive one persons decision?

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Old 04-14-2013, 06:56 AM
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Considering I am wanting to go across the other side of the world for him that pretty much tells you I would do anything to be with him!

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I already did, came from Ireland to be with my girlfriend!

Nothing that you wont do when you love someone, love should be unconditional, even if it takes you to the ends of the earth


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Ok so what would happen if you were not allowed to come over to Australia? what would you do i understand that at the moment you are willing to travel to the end of the world like i did but if your visa was not granted what would happen then.

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You get back up, dust yourself off, and you just do what you gotta do to make things work, and if that means leaving again, then thats whats gotta be done!!

Australias amazing, we absolutely love it, and want to do our best to get to stay here for longer, but it wont define us a couple, it wont change us if we dont get to stay! We are who we are because we love each other, because we have no expectations of each other, and our love is unconditional with each other!

So many times in life your gonna be faced with the hardest things and the hardest decisions to make, but you cant let them grind you down! Lifes full of victims, and if you wanna be one, then life will just treat you like one!

I really believe in staying positive, doing your best in life, doing things the way they are supposed to be done in regards to immi etc!

If things dont work, it wont be for the lack of trying on our part! But you just gotta do your best!

Dont let things get you down! Stay on top of them no matter how hard or high they appear!

In regards to my partner, there is nothing we would'nt do for each other, we will always be strong no matter where we are, whether here in Australia, Ireland or any other part of the world!

I often read the threads on here and peoples stories and experiences, and some of them are heart wrenching and so unfair at times with people going through hell!!

Johnny Cash once said "if your going through hell, keep going"

Dont get bogged down with everything, no matter how hard things are, keep going, even if it is just little steps!!

Hope everyone on here gets what they want

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Old 04-14-2013, 07:39 AM
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What beautiful words JB1234 its true what you say you and your partner are together and that's wonderful, recently i was reading a members post and the visa was declined/refused and unfortunately that member saw this as the end of the relationship, one at one side of the world and another at the other side, i found this heart wrenching, it got me thinking what people would do in this situation when everything seems lost.

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Yea i actually find that quite sad as well!

If you feel you have something worth fighting for, then never give up that fight! Nothing would stop us being together! And sometimes hard conversations have to be had!

We've already discussed the possibilities of not getting to stay here! Because unfortunately as we see on here time and time again, its not just a possibility but a realistic view that our visa may be refused as well!

For us it will be most definitely be disaspointing and soul destroying! But we already know that whatever we do, it will be together!! The loads always lighter when its shared!

We spent a lot of time apart with her being here and me back home, so we know the heartache of being apart! We dont want to go through that again!

Dont make the mistake of losing sight of what you actually want together!

Jumping through all the hoops with immi etc can make you focus on that single goal of getting things granted etc, and take away from what you actually are as a couple, so i find it sad that the person you mentioned saw the relationship as being over because of a visa being declined! For me id simply be looking at what else i could then do to make it work!

If you want things in life and want to be with someone, you will always find a way, otherwise whats the point of it alll!

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That is adorable! My friend moved over to oz a few years ago and since then has fallen in love, was granted a permanent visa, and has had 2 children! Love really does conquer all!

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I must be an old romantic (well not actually that old lol) but I honestly think that where there is true love, people will always find a way to be together - whatever it takes.

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Amen to that Mark


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