I am sorry to say this, but I think your partner has sent you a clear crystal message by obtaining sponsorship on his own and more importantly behind your back .He is changed in a sense he didn't even tell me he got sponsored. He lied. We are still together legally. When he applied for 457 he applied just for himself and now i want to go to his visa anyhow. I am still a student and he is on own 457 visa. We have not separated yet neuther divorced. Can i sue him or something
He simply does not want you on his visa that's why he didn't add you from the start.
You might want to think about your own plan .
Good luck 😉