They just refused our de facto visa because we didn’t believe our relationship. Our references made it sound more like dating than living together. We filed October 2017 but living together since September 2016 I was on visiting from March 2016 to October 2017 had to leave Australia back to Canada every 3 months. They refused anymore visiting visa because of de facto relationship. We paid iver $7000.00 fee received the email in October 2018 saying visa was being processed year waiting so thought we were finally getting somewhere.