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Old 06-20-2013, 01:20 PM
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Dear Manjit

I am more than 100% sure that we are characters of same storey. There is not even a single thing different except only 1% information is being provided by you. For your confirmation, I will give the full script of message sent by me on 07.04.2013 at 9.01 am AEST which you were referring to in your earlier post:-

“Hi,
I am not in position to talk over the phone. Please don’t harass me mentally by calling 33 times in 5 minutes. If you have something left to say then please send me a text. Thanks in anticipation of your understanding and appreciation.”

This message (exact wording) was sent after having 2 hours of abusive torcher from you over the phone on previous night when you went on saying that I cannot give father’s love to my daughter because I couldn’t get from my father because he died when I was only 2 years old.

We need to agree on the actual issue first. According to my understanding, priority is to bring daughter here not original passport. If you have lost/misplaced it then we can get new one and I am ready to sign consent letter and pay whatever government fee right now. Law is same for everybody; consent letter is required from both parents. You have custody of daughter and she is living with your parents. If you didn’t tell to your husband that you got PR so that he couldn’t cancel the sponsorship and you are coming to Australia without your daughter (confirmed by you earlier), how would he know that you have misplaced and you need daughter’s new passport?

In situation like this, whole family is unfortunate and suffering. I can understand what you are trying to do here. In last all posts, you never discussed that there was a domestic violence incident and was even reported. You were always afraid that your husband will cancel the sponsorship but now you are trying to blame him with one more lie that he already reported to department in 2011.

Do you really know what would department have done if he had reported?
Department would have contacted you straightaway in 2011 and asked for explanation. Now if you will say that yes they contacted you then why you were afraid of something which already had happened?

You were living separate and in different countries, how he can be involved in domestic violence, in fact he was victim of domestic violence few times in past which he compromised for the sake of his daughter but everything has a limit.
Which police you have informed? Australian or Indian?

Every human gets sick during his/her life but one should never tell lies about their children’s health just to blame someone. According to your message, You want divorce but you won’t file until you get your Citizenship (12 months stay in Australia) . How cheap it is?

I am not on this thread to blame anybody but I am forced to be here to defend myself which I believe every human has right to. Please Stop Lying because everybody knows that you are not good at it.


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Old 06-20-2013, 01:37 PM
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EDIT : I did not check the all previous posts before making this post, now after going thru everything, patrick guys seems to be the father. If this is the case then I would suggest you guys to take this matter offline and work together to sort things down.[/QUOTE]

Mr. Tara
I entirely agree with you that this matter should be handled offline and by working together. I am not on this thread to blame anybody but I am forced to be here to defend myself which I believe every human has right to. It was really difficult for me to read and not even defend myself. These are my emotions which came out in words. I tried everything to resolve the issue since day 1. From last 3 months, I never even thought of meeting her against her wish. She is refusing to meet in presence of any common friend or well wisher without any valid explanation. Trust has been breached so many times in past by telling lies that I am totally scared to meet her alone. She may try to provoke me and involve me in violence.


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Old 06-20-2013, 01:46 PM
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I guess I still can't figure out why Patrick would track down manjeet's posts (this one two months old, another nine months old) to comment on them. I mean, nothing harmful in that except that others might see this thread and try to help manjeet when she hasn't been on the site in two months... Don't want to quash people's instincts to help, though! Always good to help. Just keep an eye on the dates of things you're looking at as you may not get a response if it's been a while since the person asking for help posted.
Hi College Girl
I do agree that this is not the appropriate place for this type of discussion but couldn’t stop myself. I am not on this thread to blame anybody but I am forced to be here to defend myself which I believe every human has right to. I am really feeling better by sharing my feelings with you guys and trying to enable you guys to give most appropriate advice to a much needed family by providing other side of the storey.
Thanks


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Old 06-20-2013, 02:12 PM
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This is an immigration forum on which people can ask questions and share advice. This is not a suitable place for husbands and wives to argue about custody arrangements and air personal grievances. We do not care who is right or who is wrong. Keep it to yourselves.

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Old 06-21-2013, 12:38 PM
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Yes Whitney: you are absolutely rite

I am solicitor working in this industry from the last 20 years, I have experienced with these type of cases. Conclusion after listen both parties:-

Patrick_1988 is very cleaver and diplomatic person actual problem is with him.he is a stupid and disrespectful person. what he wants from all of us to insult his wife. because she has taken the decision to leave him and hurt his man's ego nothing else.

Manjit has taken the rite decision to kick off Patrick_1988 from her life, because of he is really a ---------------------------.


Lets have a look what he wrote on this thread, if he insulted his wife in front of us to show he is a genuine person and show his bedroom talk publicly, what a kind of man he is.

Patrick_1988, you donot need to show us she is not a good girl publicly, this shows that what a kind of man you are.

Initial advice
Respect woman, because you are living in that country where you can sue which you wrote about your wife in this thread.

Good manjit to take the decision not to left your daughter with this guy, he will definable spoils your's daughters life. he is a crazy men.

Sorry if i wrote some wrong


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This is an immigration forum on which people can ask questions and share advice. This is not a suitable place for husbands and wives to argue about custody arrangements and air personal grievances. We do not care who is right or who is wrong. Keep it to yourselves.


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Old 06-21-2013, 12:41 PM
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Yes Whitney: you are absolutely rite

I am solicitor working in this industry from the last 20 years, I have experienced with these type of cases. Conclusion after listen both parties:-

Patrick_1988 is very cleaver and diplomatic person actual problem is with him.he is a stupid and disrespectful person. what he wants from all of us to insult his wife. because she has taken the decision to leave him and hurt his man's ego nothing else.

Manjit has taken the rite decision to kick off Patrick_1988 from her life, because of he is really a ---------------------------.


Lets have a look what he wrote on this thread, if he insulted his wife in front of us to show he is a genuine person and show his bedroom talk publicly, what a kind of man he is.

Patrick_1988, you donot need to show us she is not a good girl publicly, this shows that what a kind of man you are.

Initial advice
Respect woman, because you are living in that country where you can sue which you wrote about your wife in this thread.

Good manjit to take the decision not to left your daughter with this guy, he will definable spoils your's daughters life. he is a crazy men.

Sorry if i wrote some wrong

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Hi College Girl
I do agree that this is not the appropriate place for this type of discussion but couldn’t stop myself. I am not on this thread to blame anybody but I am forced to be here to defend myself which I believe every human has right to. I am really feeling better by sharing my feelings with you guys and trying to enable you guys to give most appropriate advice to a much needed family by providing other side of the storey.
Thanks


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Old 06-21-2013, 12:48 PM
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Patrick_1988:
She is rite, she cannot file her divorce against you because she need to stay in Australia minimum 12 months.

she is not lying to this thread.


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Dear Manjit

I am more than 100% sure that we are characters of same storey. There is not even a single thing different except only 1% information is being provided by you. For your confirmation, I will give the full script of message sent by me on 07.04.2013 at 9.01 am AEST which you were referring to in your earlier post:-

“Hi,
I am not in position to talk over the phone. Please don’t harass me mentally by calling 33 times in 5 minutes. If you have something left to say then please send me a text. Thanks in anticipation of your understanding and appreciation.”

This message (exact wording) was sent after having 2 hours of abusive torcher from you over the phone on previous night when you went on saying that I cannot give father’s love to my daughter because I couldn’t get from my father because he died when I was only 2 years old.

We need to agree on the actual issue first. According to my understanding, priority is to bring daughter here not original passport. If you have lost/misplaced it then we can get new one and I am ready to sign consent letter and pay whatever government fee right now. Law is same for everybody; consent letter is required from both parents. You have custody of daughter and she is living with your parents. If you didn’t tell to your husband that you got PR so that he couldn’t cancel the sponsorship and you are coming to Australia without your daughter (confirmed by you earlier), how would he know that you have misplaced and you need daughter’s new passport?

In situation like this, whole family is unfortunate and suffering. I can understand what you are trying to do here. In last all posts, you never discussed that there was a domestic violence incident and was even reported. You were always afraid that your husband will cancel the sponsorship but now you are trying to blame him with one more lie that he already reported to department in 2011.

Do you really know what would department have done if he had reported?
Department would have contacted you straightaway in 2011 and asked for explanation. Now if you will say that yes they contacted you then why you were afraid of something which already had happened?

You were living separate and in different countries, how he can be involved in domestic violence, in fact he was victim of domestic violence few times in past which he compromised for the sake of his daughter but everything has a limit.
Which police you have informed? Australian or Indian?

Every human gets sick during his/her life but one should never tell lies about their children’s health just to blame someone. According to your message, You want divorce but you won’t file until you get your Citizenship (12 months stay in Australia) . How cheap it is?

I am not on this thread to blame anybody but I am forced to be here to defend myself which I believe every human has right to. Please Stop Lying because everybody knows that you are not good at it.


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Old 06-21-2013, 12:49 PM
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Yes Whitney: you are absolutely rite

I am solicitor working in this industry from the last 20 years, I have experienced with these type of cases. Conclusion after listen both parties:-

Patrick_1988 is very cleaver and diplomatic person actual problem is with him.he is a stupid and disrespectful person. what he wants from all of us to insult his wife. because she has taken the decision to leave him and hurt his man's ego nothing else.

Manjit has taken the rite decision to kick off Patrick_1988 from her life, because of he is really a ---------------------------.


Lets have a look what he wrote on this thread, if he insulted his wife in front of us to show he is a genuine person and show his bedroom talk publicly, what a kind of man he is.

Patrick_1988, you donot need to show us she is not a good girl publicly, this shows that what a kind of man you are.

Initial advice
Respect woman, because you are living in that country where you can sue which you wrote about your wife in this thread.

Good manjit to take the decision not to left your daughter with this guy, he will definable spoils your's daughters life. he is a crazy men.

Sorry if i wrote some wrong


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Hi College Girl
I do agree that this is not the appropriate place for this type of discussion but couldn’t stop myself. I am not on this thread to blame anybody but I am forced to be here to defend myself which I believe every human has right to. I am really feeling better by sharing my feelings with you guys and trying to enable you guys to give most appropriate advice to a much needed family by providing other side of the storey.
Thanks


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Old 06-21-2013, 01:00 PM
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Nobody on this forum is interested in this dispute. We come here to discuss Visa's only. Keep your personal business to yourselves.

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